I’ll be honest, I don’t understand much of what you’re trying to get across here. I don’t even know how empathy figures into it. You could just let the OP choo

I’ll be honest, I don’t understand much of what you’re trying to get across here. I don’t even know how empathy figures into it. You could just let the OP choose to answer for themselves instead of getting offended on their behalf. So far, they’ve chosen not to answer, and that’s fine too.