I used pestering for OP's "I and others have brought this up (...) but they refuse to see it this way (...). It's very frustrating." Suggest it once, discuss i

I used pestering for OP's "I and others have brought this up (...) but they refuse to see it this way (...). It's very frustrating." Suggest it once, discuss it, get refused, move on. Instead there are tens of comments and above is a complaint about an additional ticket for the same issue. I am not saying that maintainers are necessarily right, but they are in their right to build their project how they like it. It is a bad pressure and force if people continue to ask for things that a maintainer has already ruled out. What's the goal otherwise, caving in due to pressure and stress?