Do you really not understand why people wouldn't want to live in a foreign country as they get older without ever having moved or been given the option? Would

Do you really not understand why people wouldn't want to live in a foreign country as they get older without ever having moved or been given the option? Would you want to learn another language at, say, age sixty not because you wanted to, but because you're having trouble conducting business anymore in the language you've always used? What if you didn't like the new food, and there very few restaurants left that serve the food you like? Is it really that hard to understand?