> Who here would be happy if you invited a guest into your house and they ignored your customs like no shoes in the house or clean up after yourself. It would

> Who here would be happy if you invited a guest into your house and they ignored your customs like no shoes in the house or clean up after yourself. It would be very reasonable to be unhappy about that, for sure. However, it's also reasonable to be unhappy when my neighbor kicks me out of their house for not taking off my shoes rather than reminding me to take them off. I'd probably stop visiting that neighbor, especially if the other people in my neighborhood could tell me similar stories.