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Congratulations! My daughter was born almost four weeks ago, though we've only had her home a week (she was premature and spent a while in the NICU.) I'm glad y
by scrumper 14y ago
Congratulations! My daughter was born almost four weeks ago, though we've only had her home a week (she was premature and spent a while in the NICU.) I'm glad you're getting stuff done at night; I've been stuck on the same moderately complex C++ state machine implementation since she was born. I'm just too tired to load the problem into my head.
While my wife is theoretically capable of doing everything on her own we share duties like you do, if only because there's no way I could allow the woman I married to suffer the entire burden of childcare unsupported. I don't know of anyone who does things any differently.
> I've gotten pretty good at one-handed typing
In another context that would be a source of shame, not pride :)
In bearmf's defence, we do matter more to the child after 2 years old. What we're doing now is supporting the mother.
- JshWright 14y agoThat implies the care and nurturing of the infant is solely the responsibility of the mother, and we're simply in a support role. In my opinion, I don't bear any less responsibility than she does.