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https://phys.org/news/2025-08-freud-ai-narcissistic-insult-humanity.html https://phys.org/news/2025-08-freud-ai-narcissistic-insult-h... What you just wrote ab

https://phys.org/news/2025-08-freud-ai-narcissistic-insult-humanity.html https://phys.org/news/2025-08-freud-ai-narcissistic-insult-h... What you just wrote about Kohut's therapeutic countertransference goes over my head atm.. (4th para especially) If you have a specific citation in a book I might be able to check if Kohut has a workable and extensible model of the therapeutic process

PaulHoule 1y ago
Here's my analysis of Freudianism, which Kohut started out in and ultimately made a major, if not complete, break. If you go see a psychoanalyst for several sessions a week and talk about yourself for a year you will, if you are "analyzable", fall in love with them to some extent. Freud saw your relationship with your parents as the template of how you fall in love so this is a "transference" of your feelings towards your parents to the therapist. The reaction your therapist has to this situation is the "countertransference", and the therapist is supposed to be aware of this and in control of it (like not sleep with their patient) and use it as a diagnostic tool for the patient's capacity to love. Freud was largely concerned with the "Oedipus Complex" which was about the triangular relationship between the patient and their two parents. This is relevant to how you handle triangular situations in your life like how you deal with a customer on behalf of your employer or how you manage a dyadic relationship with someone but do so ethically and consistent with what is good for society. People who are frankly psychotic aren't "analyzable" but by the 1960s there was a lot of interest in "borderline" patients who weren't quite psychotic but whose relationships at the dyadic level were disturbed enough that they weren't really "analyzable" in terms of the Oedipus complex because they were not developed enough to have that. Kohut's work was part of a body of work on "pre-Oedipal" phenomena which at the time people tried to trace to your relationship to your mother rather than the triangular family relationship. Kohut discovered aspects of "loving" that were primordial and present in everyone such as idealization, the desire to merge with someone, the fantasy that someone is your twin, that are stuff that mature people manage to create more "real" love out of. So in his work he looked for signs of those kinds of transference and also the reactions the therapist had to them which it turns out can be really strong. Kohut's books are some of the most difficult reads you can find but they are really rewarding, they explain a lot about what goes on inside the head when just ordinary people "lose their shit" at a small provocation and were the start of a line of research that ultimately got both borderline and schizotypal personality disorders into the DSM by the 1980s. His ideas are relevant because they describe the raw material that people adapt to make a mature personality but also what happens when people have developmental problems that lead to a developmental arrest or when people regress under stress.
- gsf_emergency_2 1y ago
  Cool. That was much more imbibable. Will try to parse Kohut for sure. Reading all that, what seems to be another interesting line, perhaps only relevant in my mind, to work out this idea of a "fashioning a mature personality" (sorta like a self-Pygmalion?): ([The works of] Wes Anderson is my model for the pschoanalytic within Hollywood being unable to shake off charges of inauthenticity (as a proxy for narcissism or vice versa) Maybe secretly, he admires Tarantino, (who appeals to the right the way he appeals to the Edwardian left?) A prognostication: WA will see himself as having arrived when he can hire a European's European to play his idea of an European. Christoph Waltz vs the guy who basically reprised the English Patient (in ... -Hotel-...). "The director therapeutized by the deputized", to make a rhetorical leap..) I hope reading Kohut will illuminate this prenascent notion that getting a narcissist to worry about the relevance of the imposter syndrome is a promising (diagnostic/analytic, if not therapeutic) approach.. The parental fixation comes off as a bit premature, however. Development-wise I think for many (some?) people school based trauma (from parent/sibling surrogates?) seems much more salient. Doesn't this suggest that cranks that post to arxiv are not driven by an Oedipal impulse? From en.wiki: >Pygmalion is a play by Irish playwright George Bernard Shaw, named after the Greek mythological figure. It premiered at the Hofburg Theatre in Vienna on 16 October 1913 and was first presented on stage in German.

PaulHoule 1y ago

Here's my analysis of Freudianism, which Kohut started out in and ultimately made a major, if not complete, break. If you go see a psychoanalyst for several sessions a week and talk about yourself for a year you will, if you are "analyzable", fall in love with them to some extent. Freud saw your relationship with your parents as the template of how you fall in love so this is a "transference" of your feelings towards your parents to the therapist. The reaction your therapist has to this situation is the "countertransference", and the therapist is supposed to be aware of this and in control of it (like not sleep with their patient) and use it as a diagnostic tool for the patient's capacity to love. Freud was largely concerned with the "Oedipus Complex" which was about the triangular relationship between the patient and their two parents. This is relevant to how you handle triangular situations in your life like how you deal with a customer on behalf of your employer or how you manage a dyadic relationship with someone but do so ethically and consistent with what is good for society. People who are frankly psychotic aren't "analyzable" but by the 1960s there was a lot of interest in "borderline" patients who weren't quite psychotic but whose relationships at the dyadic level were disturbed enough that they weren't really "analyzable" in terms of the Oedipus complex because they were not developed enough to have that. Kohut's work was part of a body of work on "pre-Oedipal" phenomena which at the time people tried to trace to your relationship to your mother rather than the triangular family relationship. Kohut discovered aspects of "loving" that were primordial and present in everyone such as idealization, the desire to merge with someone, the fantasy that someone is your twin, that are stuff that mature people manage to create more "real" love out of. So in his work he looked for signs of those kinds of transference and also the reactions the therapist had to them which it turns out can be really strong. Kohut's books are some of the most difficult reads you can find but they are really rewarding, they explain a lot about what goes on inside the head when just ordinary people "lose their shit" at a small provocation and were the start of a line of research that ultimately got both borderline and schizotypal personality disorders into the DSM by the 1980s. His ideas are relevant because they describe the raw material that people adapt to make a mature personality but also what happens when people have developmental problems that lead to a developmental arrest or when people regress under stress.

gsf_emergency_2 1y ago
Cool. That was much more imbibable. Will try to parse Kohut for sure. Reading all that, what seems to be another interesting line, perhaps only relevant in my mind, to work out this idea of a "fashioning a mature personality" (sorta like a self-Pygmalion?): ([The works of] Wes Anderson is my model for the pschoanalytic within Hollywood being unable to shake off charges of inauthenticity (as a proxy for narcissism or vice versa) Maybe secretly, he admires Tarantino, (who appeals to the right the way he appeals to the Edwardian left?) A prognostication: WA will see himself as having arrived when he can hire a European's European to play his idea of an European. Christoph Waltz vs the guy who basically reprised the English Patient (in ... -Hotel-...). "The director therapeutized by the deputized", to make a rhetorical leap..) I hope reading Kohut will illuminate this prenascent notion that getting a narcissist to worry about the relevance of the imposter syndrome is a promising (diagnostic/analytic, if not therapeutic) approach.. The parental fixation comes off as a bit premature, however. Development-wise I think for many (some?) people school based trauma (from parent/sibling surrogates?) seems much more salient. Doesn't this suggest that cranks that post to arxiv are not driven by an Oedipal impulse? From en.wiki: >Pygmalion is a play by Irish playwright George Bernard Shaw, named after the Greek mythological figure. It premiered at the Hofburg Theatre in Vienna on 16 October 1913 and was first presented on stage in German.