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The author really seems to buy into the concept of a blame culture doesn't she. People don't seem to realise that there is a chance of 'bad' stuff happening an
by adaml_623 14y ago
The author really seems to buy into the concept of a blame culture doesn't she. People don't seem to realise that there is a chance of 'bad' stuff happening and if they want the good stuff they need to take a risk. You might be able to minimise some risks but if you obsess over them you're going to go down the path of seeing only danger everywhere.
Of course this blame culture develops and spreads through social networks where people talk behind the back of someone who doesn't have a perfect child and blames their genetics or parenting skills or lifestyle choices.
- brc 14y agoThe blame culture is a terrible problem. If nobody is responsible for anything because it's not their fault, and somebody else is to blame, how are people going to become self-reliant?
- akldfgj 14y agoWhat does fault have to do with self-reliance? Fault is in the past, solving problems is in the future.
- brc 14y agoI'm assuming your question is genuine rather than rhetorical. If a person believes that their personal outcomes are largely or totally created by circumstances out of their control, they will have difficulties becoming self-reliant. Blaming other people and other things for personal failings and problems seldom leads to better outcomes.