I don’t initiate much conversation with most of my friends. I love my friends and have many of them but I can’t keep up with everyone’s lives. I keep up with a

I don’t initiate much conversation with most of my friends. I love my friends and have many of them but I can’t keep up with everyone’s lives. I keep up with a few people who are easy to contact. One group of friends have a discord server and twice a week voice calls I can drop into. This works great. I also have older people in my life who actually do phone calls. So when I go out for a walk, I might call one of them. Anyone who has expectations of me will be disappointed. I pop up where I can and my friends are happy to see me. They know I care and we always pick up where we left off.