Use nixos. I install updates maybe every few months and it's fine. My desktop experience has been completely solid for almost a decade. My work computer with W

Use nixos. I install updates maybe every few months and it's fine. My desktop experience has been completely solid for almost a decade. My work computer with Windows on the other hand requires restarts every day or two after WSL inevitably gets into a state where vscode can't connect to it for some reason (when it gets into such a state it also usually pegs the CPU at 100% so even unlocking takes a minute or more, and usually I just do a hard power off).