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Then why is it clear that they struggle at life? Just because they have bad cognitive logical skills? I don't buy that argument.
by calf 1y ago
Then why is it clear that they struggle at life? Just because they have bad cognitive logical skills? I don't buy that argument.
- gwbas1c 1y agoI don't like to go into personal details, so I'll offer a high-level summary: They insist on living in a high-cost-of-living area, but can't hold the kind of job needed to live there. Moving to a lower-cost-of-living area where they can be employed isn't considered. They don't have insight into who makes a good romantic partner / spouse. (Think of the stereotype who imports a "Russian Bride.") They get into bar fights, in part because they will talk without listening to others' opinions. (And because they don't understand important differences between US culture and where they immigrated from.) --- I have a few people in my life who stop listening when they get agitated, so I personally have little patience for changing people. Trying to get these people to listen to reason is a fools' errand, so I no longer try and just end the conversation as quickly as possible.