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> learn the trick of making, and keeping, new friends. The trick is having time and energy. The challenge is finding the time and energy in your mid-20s and be
by 9rx 1y ago
> learn the trick of making, and keeping, new friends.
The trick is having time and energy. The challenge is finding the time and energy in your mid-20s and beyond when things like your career, children, etc. come crushing down upon you, all while, at the same time, your body starts to lose is youthful vitality.
- rendall 1y agoI understand. I have been there myself. I found it very difficult to crawl out of that hole. It helped me to understand that since a series of decisions led me there, that a series of decisions could lead me out. It took some irrational risk that paid off in my case. Since you mention a family with children, modeling good health and socialization will help the children in your life too. Do try, if you can. No shame, if you sincerely cannot. Good luck.
- rendall 1y agoThis thread might be illuminating https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44913663 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44913663