Perhaps it is more a reflection of you, or of US (?) attitudes. This 3,000 person study [1] in Germany matched pairs of strangers for private face-to-face meet

Perhaps it is more a reflection of you, or of US (?) attitudes. This 3,000 person study [1] in Germany matched pairs of strangers for private face-to-face meetings to discuss divisive political issues. It found asymmetric effects: conversations with like-minded individuals caused political views to become more extreme (ideological polarization); by contrast, conversations with contrary-minded individuals did not lead to a convergence of political views, but significantly reduced negative beliefs and attitudes toward ideological out-group members (affective polarization), while also improving perceived social cohesion more generally. These effects of contrary-minded conversations seem to be driven mostly by positive experiences of interpersonal contact. [1] https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0047272725000076 https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S004727272...