I once had to go through a very similar process when I wanted to disallow my kid to play Minecraft online. I can't even tell you how much wtf's I've experienced

I once had to go through a very similar process when I wanted to disallow my kid to play Minecraft online. I can't even tell you how much wtf's I've experienced along the way. It literally took me more than 40 minutes and I had to create two accounts, keep in mind I'm a software developer, so I'm a tech savvy person. Then after couple of month we tried to play together on the local lan and after spending another 40 minutes and choosing "allow" on every goddamn option on their settings portal it was still blocked... I feel like Microsoft has a beta new great portal built just for what you're looking for but then when it becomes just mature enough for version 1.0 it immediately gets overruled by a newer, bigger, better portal that is currently in beta.