I really don't mean it as an insult, it legitimately just comes off like people are lying. The difference in experience is really just that stark that I honestl

I really don't mean it as an insult, it legitimately just comes off like people are lying. The difference in experience is really just that stark that I honestly cannot fathom these claims actually being truthful, certainly not in the absolute sense they are presented. So, subjectivity remains.