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Is there a way, to verify if potential partner uses this app? Or if they are in "are we dating the same guy" type of group? I take doxing, stalking, revenge po

Is there a way, to verify if potential partner uses this app? Or if they are in "are we dating the same guy" type of group? I take doxing, stalking, revenge porn and cyber bullying very seriously! And I would pay good money for a background check, to stay away from such people.

cindyllm 1y ago
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more_corn 1y ago
Easy post negative information about yourself on there.
- jeroenhd 1y ago
  You need to verify you're a woman with some form of ID before you can get into the app. Faking an ID and a picture can't be that difficult in the age of AI (especially not when the company that's supposed to verify you is this callous with their users' PII), but it's not as quick and easy as you suggest.
SrslyJosh 1y ago
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generalizations 1y ago
There is now.
codedokode 1y ago
Ask her?
- goku12 1y ago
  Do you expect abusive people to answer honestly? The perceived anonymity on the app is a double edged sword.
VerminOctopus1 1y ago
Would you want your own app usage available to other people? I’m going to guess not. This is a gross request, not surprised you’re using a throwaway account, as you seem to know this is a shameful thing to ask for.
- goku12 1y ago
  And whatever happens on that app is not gross? If a revenge porn or csam site is busted, won't people want to know who were on it so that they can stay away from the potential predators? Isn't that why sex offenders' lists exist? Honestly, this app should be treated no less. The fact that they were able to remain on App and Play stores in the name of 'women's safety' demonstrate how grossly sexist, populist and vindictive the corporate structure in Apple, Google and the others have become. Binding one side to strict dogma and unwavering standards, while allowing the other side to anonymously wreak havoc on reputations is precisely the type of moral bankruptcy that's being challenged and assailed here.
martin82 1y ago
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cindyllm 1y ago

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more_corn 1y ago

Easy post negative information about yourself on there.

jeroenhd 1y ago
You need to verify you're a woman with some form of ID before you can get into the app. Faking an ID and a picture can't be that difficult in the age of AI (especially not when the company that's supposed to verify you is this callous with their users' PII), but it's not as quick and easy as you suggest.

SrslyJosh 1y ago

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generalizations 1y ago

There is now.

codedokode 1y ago

Ask her?

goku12 1y ago
Do you expect abusive people to answer honestly? The perceived anonymity on the app is a double edged sword.

VerminOctopus1 1y ago

Would you want your own app usage available to other people? I’m going to guess not. This is a gross request, not surprised you’re using a throwaway account, as you seem to know this is a shameful thing to ask for.

goku12 1y ago
And whatever happens on that app is not gross? If a revenge porn or csam site is busted, won't people want to know who were on it so that they can stay away from the potential predators? Isn't that why sex offenders' lists exist? Honestly, this app should be treated no less. The fact that they were able to remain on App and Play stores in the name of 'women's safety' demonstrate how grossly sexist, populist and vindictive the corporate structure in Apple, Google and the others have become. Binding one side to strict dogma and unwavering standards, while allowing the other side to anonymously wreak havoc on reputations is precisely the type of moral bankruptcy that's being challenged and assailed here.

martin82 1y ago

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