You're connecting something you dislike to a linguistic phenomenon based on a shared link to a concept. You could just as well argue that we shouldn't use names

You're connecting something you dislike to a linguistic phenomenon based on a shared link to a concept. You could just as well argue that we shouldn't use names, because all people need to be treated the same. Removing gender from language doesn't lead to paradise. Chinese and Turkish don't have gendered third person pronouns, but China and Turkey are not shining examples of gender equality.