Curious what you run, instead of Debian. I haven't had the same experience as you've had, but for myself, Debian has just worked other than having to provide my

Curious what you run, instead of Debian. I haven't had the same experience as you've had, but for myself, Debian has just worked other than having to provide my own wireless adapter driver .so file when I installed off a thumb drive without an Ethernet connection. While I have more experience than the average Linux user, and got started with Slackware in the 90's and then moved to Red Hat in the very late 90's, it's been a good 20 years since I used a Linux system full time. That's as a desktop, I've had no issues running as an application server for 2 decades. I haven't run into a scenario where the desktop has caused me issues, only with Windows-only software that I sometimes require. What software has caused you issues that doesn't play nicely with Debian? What hacks are in place to mitigate upstream issues? I'm honestly curious, and if you don't use Debian, what distribution do you use regularly?