Not a *BSD user myself, but have you considered FreeBSD or NetBSD? I would wager they have more friendly communities. Apart from the official homepages, this m

Not a *BSD user myself, but have you considered FreeBSD or NetBSD? I would wager they have more friendly communities. Apart from the official homepages, this might be a useful starting point: https://www.unitedbsd.com/ https://www.unitedbsd.com/ Best of luck!