My wife really wants to build a house; we've started by doing some light remodeling using GC's who also build houses to a "get a feel for it". There's a strong

My wife really wants to build a house; we've started by doing some light remodeling using GC's who also build houses to a "get a feel for it". There's a strong incentive for a good GC to truly believe the estimate he gives you. (They're all dudes, around here.) However, that estimate is rarely close — usually the budget goes over 50–100%. Here's the thing: the GC gets paid off the total cost, not the original contact, and he gets a cut of the cost. So, really, there's no incentive at all for him to control costs. A buddy of mine works for a large grocer down here (HEB). The way HEB builds is that they get a build contract and a bunch of lawyers, and the GC has to demonstrate that they have enough assets that HEB can go after to make them (HEB) whole. If the GC goes over estimate, then that's on the GC, not on HEB. HEB gets a building or they take the money back. As an individual, you can "act like HEB" by going with a major builder. Down here that'd be Pulte or someone like that; alternately, there's a lot of high quality factory-built custom homes. I'm trying to convince my wife that we should build a metal building on post-and-beam with a crawl space. We can build a minimum viable house for 25¢/$ compared to a custom, and the quality is straight-up an order-of-magnitude better. The rest of the house can be finished out using off-the-shelf components.