This never ends. I am a lot more privileged than many in my 40s and I still feel like a loser because i didn't hit the goals I had for 40. You have to realize a

This never ends. I am a lot more privileged than many in my 40s and I still feel like a loser because i didn't hit the goals I had for 40. You have to realize and accept that there always will be someone doing better than you not because they are but because you "think" so. It is human nature. Btw, most people in America are living on credit. The fancy cars you see ? Most of them are leased or financed. Big houses ? A lot of people are house poor i.e. living paycheck to paycheck to keep up with the fancy house. And the real rich/wealthy people you see ? Those are built over generations, not in 1 lifetime. So stop thinking about how everyone has got it bt you haven't. There are plenty of people worst than you and there always be people in better situation than you. It is called Life. The only thing that matters is how you are living YOUR life, not others'. FOcus on doing what you want to do and go for it. Spend time on things and people you care about and who care about you.