Owning all that stuff is often a burden. They can have it. It’s much better to have a friend with a boat (or yacht) than to have one yourself. Someone else hav

Owning all that stuff is often a burden. They can have it. It’s much better to have a friend with a boat (or yacht) than to have one yourself. Someone else having a yacht, a jet ski, or taking a trip, has 0 impact on my life. It’s not a 0 sum game. Them having less doesn’t mean I have more. Me having more doesn’t mean they have less. When I was younger I thought if I made a certain amount of money I’d be happy. I’ve now tripled that original number and it did nothing in terms of my happiness or contentment. Life is about relationships and those don’t cost a dime.