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I agree with everything you're saying, but would like to add that being factual isn't the same thing as being mean, although it can be perceived that way.
by slantyyz 14y ago
I agree with everything you're saying, but would like to add that being factual isn't the same thing as being mean, although it can be perceived that way.
- majelix 14y ago"Being mean" is about HOW you present the facts. Yes, this is more or less difficult with some facts (such as getting fired), but there are ways(It's not you, it's me). It's up to us to care enough to be nice and how we're perceived.
- slantyyz 14y agoYou're right, if you present with malice, that's mean. But sometimes the facts themselves are perceived as mean, when they really aren't.