Most people work to support themselves and their families. Software's no different. Pay and conditions in software are so much higher than any vocation that it

Most people work to support themselves and their families. Software's no different. Pay and conditions in software are so much higher than any vocation that it attracts many people who would never program recreationally. If that's not you and you are overjoyed to be able to write software everyday, that's fine. But you should recognise that you're in a tiny minority of developers.