I'm honestly increasingly skeptical of any third party dependencies as I age through my career. Before I'll agree to depend on a build tool, package or library

I'm honestly increasingly skeptical of any third party dependencies as I age through my career. Before I'll agree to depend on a build tool, package or library, I either need to be convinced that: 1) It has a good chance of a decently maintained future 2) The blast radius of replacing it would be acceptable