For me the difference is between expected and unexpected. I expect bosses to observe my attitude/emotions through personal interaction and even review my commit

For me the difference is between expected and unexpected. I expect bosses to observe my attitude/emotions through personal interaction and even review my commits by hand (it's even mandatory where I work.) I do not expect them to compute extensive statistics on what I do in the repository and draw deep conclusions from that, it's somehow too close to what I consider private. It's obviously subjective.