Outside of actual physical abuse, I give people zero grace to blame their childhood for their shitty behavior as an adult. You should be able to work through t

Outside of actual physical abuse, I give people zero grace to blame their childhood for their shitty behavior as an adult. You should be able to work through that shit. Especially if it was just that Dad didn't hug you enough. It's 2025; the tools are available. If you're a shitty adult, that's on you. If you're unable to process your own actions to see how attention seeking and desperate for validation you are, that's on you. Source: I got the ever-loving hell kicked out of me as a kid, and sought help as an adult so that this nonsense could stop with me. If I can do it, with my lack of willpower and attention span, literally anyone can. Especially if they have access to the time and money required for that process.