I'm bang up for any suggestions, all good. Under no delusion that I know the right thing to say in this situation. I've actually found it difficult to find the

I'm bang up for any suggestions, all good. Under no delusion that I know the right thing to say in this situation. I've actually found it difficult to find the right time to say, almost literally, anything; which may actually be a good thing (in minimising my opportunity to make things worse). She has been seeing a psych for a month or two (regarding her 'minor' self harm, the eating disorder hadn't "presented" at that time). She's generally pretty closed about her emotions, but she did start opening up after a few sessions. Not that it was able to prevent the decline towards the current situation. We've asked her "team" at the hospital whether there's a psych involved in her program. They said no, for two reasons: 1. They're currently understaffed in that area 2. They need to get her weight / nutrition back to a baseline level because 'starvation brain' is, essentially, not worth working on - it's not functioning correctly. Despite that, they said they'd still see what they can organise. We've also started the process to getting an eating-disorder-specific psych booked for when she's discharged from hospital.