There’s enormous variation, from giving the kid whatever they want, to giving them no choice and then punishing them for doing what they’re told. If you imagin

There’s enormous variation, from giving the kid whatever they want, to giving them no choice and then punishing them for doing what they’re told. If you imagine it from the perspective of aliens with very different biology, it’s kind of crazy that this important and difficult task is given to people with zero training or qualifications.