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If a shark attacks you, it isn't personal, but it is traumatic. Also, sharks weren't made by ethically-questionable hackers. I don't see why you need to dismi
by doitformango 1y ago
If a shark attacks you, it isn't personal, but it is traumatic.
Also, sharks weren't made by ethically-questionable hackers.
I don't see why you need to dismiss this person's legitimate trauma, seems awfully boorish of you to do so.
- sapphire42 1y ago[flagged]
- flkenosad 1y ago> Also, sharks weren't made by ethically-questionable hackers. You don't know that.
- doitformango 1y agoI cannot argue with that.
- antod 1y agoThose are the ones have frickin lasers on their heads.
- gblargg 1y agoI read it as the opposite, trying to help them process it as not something deeply malicious targeting them. I'm thankful of the times I took something deeply, then realized it was something else and had a change of heart. This is ultimately what trauma and processing is about: something blindsided you and your initial response is a large field of shock and avoidance, then slowly you process it until you have a practical approach to deal with the thing next time, so it doesn't blindside you again.
- doitformango 1y agoThat's a really good point. Now that you explain it, its not boorish but insightful. Thanks.