Note: this isn't my list I'm just posting the title faithfully. Personally, I'd recommend https://coolify.io/ https://coolify.io/ if you're willing to cough up

Note: this isn't my list I'm just posting the title faithfully. Personally, I'd recommend https://coolify.io/ https://coolify.io/ if you're willing to cough up $5/mo to have a really great experience you fully control.