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A pet peeve of mine is how common it is for people to ignore qualifying words. Like you can say "most people do 'x'" and you can guarantee if you post that onli
by godelski 1y ago
A pet peeve of mine is how common it is for people to ignore qualifying words. Like you can say "most people do 'x'" and you can guarantee if you post that online people will come out of the woodwork saying "I don't do 'x'". Sure, the most claims can often be inaccurate, but those types of responses aren't helpful and aren't meaningfully responsive even if true. "Most" is just a very different word from "all". It implies a distribution but idky we often think things are discrete or binary.
I also see ignoring qualifiers as a frequent cause for online arguments. They're critical words when communicating and dropping them can dramatically change what's being communicated. And of course people are fighting because they end up talking about very different things and don't even realize it.
While I agree with you, that it's common for people to use these words sloppily, I think it is best to default to not ignore them. IME, in the worst case, it aids in communication as you get clarification.