IMO: People trying to plan accurately, end up with a list of things to think about containing more than seven items, and human psychology is such that this mak

IMO: People trying to plan accurately, end up with a list of things to think about containing more than seven items, and human psychology is such that this makes it *feel* infinite despite us being able to see that it isn't. People who don't worry to much and vibe it, get pregnant/cause pregnancy by accident, often but not always as teens. Despite not planning carefully, and even in pre-industrial societies where a lot more problems were rapidly fatal and the best you could hope for in such cases regarding childcare allowance was a shotgun marriage, vibing it generally works. With more certainty: I'm not sure what the distribution is of women hearing about painful births and saying "nope!", but I do know it's more than none. I know a few deliberately childfree couples who like the higher income and lack of responsibility, and have zero interest in proposals such as this.