>>We can always find words to justify being a follower instead of a leader I'm not sure what you mean by that in this context. Just like I have to be part of m

>>We can always find words to justify being a follower instead of a leader I'm not sure what you mean by that in this context. Just like I have to be part of my local "nerdy" store to play MtG every Friday, I kinda have to be part of local MTB groups to know when they are riding. I could like you say, be a leader and organise my own rides I suppose? Is that what you mean? If so, then I'm sure you can see limitations to this approach.