> It’s possible to consent to these things Some people have odd kinks. While it may weird you out (and in many ways it weirds me out too) I am far less judgeme

> It’s possible to consent to these things Some people have odd kinks. While it may weird you out (and in many ways it weirds me out too) I am far less judgemental about it. If people want to be choked while fucking, well, by all means, as long as I am not involved. Most kinks I hear about are things I have no desire to experiment myself. > I’m intensely skeptical that this is the one kind of gendered violence against women Why do you presume that women are the only ones being choked? And also why do you presume that a consenting adult is actually not consenting to something they are actively engaging in? Why infantilize people like that?