> write checks to families Ideally, yes. But I'm not going to tell someone they can't work. My wife was stay-at-home, until she couldn't take it any more, an

> write checks to families Ideally, yes. But I'm not going to tell someone they can't work. My wife was stay-at-home, until she couldn't take it any more, and then returned to work. Even though it cost us more overall (childcare, second car, etc).