It happens that groups invent their own rules, but I assure you, the rest of the world doesn't have a problem with a 39 year old man and a 22 year old woman. I

It happens that groups invent their own rules, but I assure you, the rest of the world doesn't have a problem with a 39 year old man and a 22 year old woman. I don't know how the poeple in your bubble expect to have kids. I’m struck by how much of this discourse functions as unintentional anti-natalism. You can’t build families in a culture where the first step (asking someone out) is treated as inherently suspect. Is the long-term plan here just to fade away politely?