Articles like this always make me livid. I feel like it’s a kind of clickbait. We have a wildly successful woman (used to “work” at playboy, uses Raya as a dat

Articles like this always make me livid. I feel like it’s a kind of clickbait. We have a wildly successful woman (used to “work” at playboy, uses Raya as a dating app for Christ’s sake) suddenly concern with where all the men are when dating stops being trivially easy for her. She looks for them at her haunts… in her 50s. For women in your 50s looking for men. Take up golf. I’ve been a member of a public golf club since my late 30s. It’s just mostly single men in their 50s and 60s who don’t have other places to be. They have friends, get exercise, have fun. The men aren’t behind their screens… they just don’t want the life you want. You have to meet them where they are: at their clubs, doing things they like to do. And the NYT should know better, but writing a column that fits the vibes is infotainment in a way that sending a reporter out to actually figure out what is going on isn’t… and is honestly probably pretty banal. Dating is hard. It’s work for the people who aren’t being chased. We all need to be easier on each other and stop assuming the worst because you personally aren’t getting what you want.