> someone assigned male at birth wanting to be attractive/desired is not necessarily different than them wanting to live the female role in our society. What e

> someone assigned male at birth wanting to be attractive/desired is not necessarily different than them wanting to live the female role in our society. What even is this idea? If we take the target audience of men who are loudest about wanting to be 'real men', the Andrew Tate (and the like) followers. These people spend hours at the gym to be desired. They wear tight shirts to show off their muscles to be desired. They wear designer shoes and shirts to be desired. They have weekly barber visits to be desired. Does that mean all these men want to live the female role in society? I don't think so, since that's the exact thing they claim to oppose.