> I am male. I can't "be better", I am already "the problem". Whether you are the problem or not is unrelated to your maleness. Being willing to be and do bett

> I am male. I can't "be better", I am already "the problem". Whether you are the problem or not is unrelated to your maleness. Being willing to be and do better is the first step on the journey that enables you to realise that truth.