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I spent almost 10 years trying to avoid calling my mother and father in law by their first names. In my home country's language there are words for "mother in l
by rayiner 1y ago
I spent almost 10 years trying to avoid calling my mother and father in law by their first names. In my home country's language there are words for "mother in law" and "father in law" you can use in a second person context, but English doesn't have any. My wife has the opposite problem. She's gotten stuck calling my parents "Mr. XYZ" and "Mrs. XYZ."
- beAbU 1y agoMy inlaws are addressed "mom" and "dad" - is that weird?
- wccrawford 1y agoI've decided that in English, every way to address your inlaws is weird until you settle on something specifically with them. "Mom" and "Dad" or "John" and "Jane", both will be weird until you've used them for a while. And if they don't like what you picked, you'll know pretty quick.
- dctoedt 1y agoMumble years ago I started using "Mom" and "Dad" as soon as we got married; my wife did the same with my folks — and my folks did the same with my grandparents.
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- rayiner 1y agoIt’s somehow both too familiar and overly deferential. Vis-a-vis my wife’s parents, I’m not a child, but an adult, though of less seniority.