When you find out, don't forget to factor in everything else she gets. The things your higher salary gets you can be had _right this instant_ if you took a dif

When you find out, don't forget to factor in everything else she gets. The things your higher salary gets you can be had _right this instant_ if you took a different job with a (potentially) lower salary. Money doesn't make you feel good, the things money can _get_ you makes you feel good, and they are often free!