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I don’t think that mean criticism is all bad; I’m one of those people who think you should not be creating companies if you don’t have a thick skin. I found out
by okeumeni 18y ago
I don’t think that mean criticism is all bad; I’m one of those people who think you should not be creating companies if you don’t have a thick skin. I found out some mean criticism actually push you back against the wall and give you a different prospective on the whole thing. Human ambition feed on challenges; some on the things I did in my life I did them because someone told me I could not do.
A personal story: In middle school, I was a chubby kid and my sport teacher made fun of me telling me I could not run a 5 miles contest because my heart may stop beating. I told my dad, my best friend, begging him not to complain at school. I saw the anger on his face and he told me one thing: prove him wrong son! I started running every day and lost tons of weight.
At my last year of high school the teacher was still around. One day I challenge him in front of a bunch of student and some teachers to run the five miles against him. He was dumb to accept because he failed to realize that I was no more the chubby kid, I was thinner and about 4 inches taller than him. I ran the first 4 miles right behind him and past him at the last mile. I remember the humiliation he put me in years back and called him names on the last stretch in front of everyone. He was crushed; I had my revenge and still feel good about it today.
- nikron 18y agoThis was a teacher?!
- racy_rick 18y agoThat is actually pretty mean. You finally took your life in your own hands and you blame your laziness, your sloth, your lack of motivation on someone that wanted to help you (albeit while being very uncouth). That is incredibly mean. You may not be fat anymore, but you are still an asshole.
- marley 18y agoThat's a really tragic story. Most awful part is the ending: "...[I] still feel good about it today."