If one is happy where he currently is, there is nothing to change. All steps, positive or negative, along the path to present were mandatory building blocks of

If one is happy where he currently is, there is nothing to change. All steps, positive or negative, along the path to present were mandatory building blocks of who we are now and why we are as we are. I myself can clearly see that at least some some negative experiences helped me in long run. The key is that they needed to be bad enough to force introspection and change, but not devastating enough to just destroy everything beyond repair.