So you are in favor that Ukraine doesn't use offensive actions, lose the war, Russia takes Moldova next, maybe entire Georgia, and then tests NATO with the balt

So you are in favor that Ukraine doesn't use offensive actions, lose the war, Russia takes Moldova next, maybe entire Georgia, and then tests NATO with the baltic states? It's a bit naive to think you should avoid escalation now to risk an even higher risk in 20 years. Russia can stop this war at any moment. It's fully their decision if they want to shoot nukes or not. None of the consequences of military operations of Ukraine should be placed in their shoes. And you claim you are not blaming Ukraine, but on the other hand you actually are.