You're completely missing the point. A mixed group works different socially than a male only group. That's not because the men are socially incompetent. It's

You're completely missing the point. A mixed group works different socially than a male only group. That's not because the men are socially incompetent. It's because it's a fundamentally different social situation. Even when everyone is an elite socializer. I'm afraid you may be the one who needs to learn more about socializing.