This doesn't mention the distinction between criticism and discouragement. Damning, but valid criticism can sound a lot like the dismissive reactions in the art

This doesn't mention the distinction between criticism and discouragement. Damning, but valid criticism can sound a lot like the dismissive reactions in the article, if not phrased constructively. Sometimes crap is just crap and you're best off accepting it, figuring out why, and starting over. I also try to avoid telling people about stuff I'm working on or have made if I don't expect them to be in a position where they can realistically give me a useful, actionable opinion. The stoic "I'll show them!" thing (for me) works in small quantities. But it can really wear you down over time, particularly from people you care about. Some people just don't seem to understand why you'd even bother to try with creative endeavours, let alone pour your life into them.