> What exactly are the wins The poster may just mean that, in basic game theory, people plan according to foreseen moves from the counterparts. For those who s

> What exactly are the wins The poster may just mean that, in basic game theory, people plan according to foreseen moves from the counterparts. For those who see everyone else as an adversary, surprising them lowers their ability to respond according to plan. Raising collective utility is a very different (an opposite) matter.