I moved from a place that puts at least some effort into beautification to a place that slaps everything as cheaply and minimally together as possible. Both wit

I moved from a place that puts at least some effort into beautification to a place that slaps everything as cheaply and minimally together as possible. Both with significant freeze-thaw cycles. I'm pretty pragmatic in general. I get the argument in the abstract. But having been on both sides, I know which is better. But more to the point, the parent used a very bad example to make their point.