But usually when I buy something, (e.g. someone to change my oil), it’s so I don’t have to think about it anymore. To me, that is not “buying love.” I buy so I

But usually when I buy something, (e.g. someone to change my oil), it’s so I don’t have to think about it anymore. To me, that is not “buying love.” I buy so I don’t have to do any work.