Exactly, perfectly put. It becomes an ingroup code, with very little to do with the actual people that are being discussed. But if people want to have a serio

Exactly, perfectly put. It becomes an ingroup code, with very little to do with the actual people that are being discussed. But if people want to have a serious conversation, it’s intellectually dishonest to steer around topics in that way. That’s how you end up with clueless policies.